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Who Do YOU Think You Are?

Who Do YOU Think You Are?

Do you think you are superior or do you struggle with low self-esteem? The fact is that we are all born the same; we come from the same divine source – everything in the Universe comes from this source. We have the same energy that holds the stars in the sky and turns the Earth.

Now that is powerful. But what happens to make us feel less than that? What dims the power we are born with?

I have two theories on this. The first is that other people’s opinions or perceptions weaken us. They distort our vision of who we are. We start becoming more like what they think we are and less like what we really are and, as a result, we feel the need to compete and compare. Wake up! Their opinions are self-serving or fear based. So my suggestion to you is, try to understand that someone else’s opinion of you is none of your business. I don’t know who said this originally but I think it is brilliant.

My second theory is a little more personal. Do you apply yourself? Women that apply themselves have more fulfilling, joyful and meaningful lives. If you don’t apply yourself, you will never know your full potential.

How much you get out of life is directly related to how much you put into it. The old statement that somebody is so lucky and gets everything is crap. You better take another look. The women I see that really enjoy life are making it that way.

Life is really simple if you chunk it down. There are four areas where you need to apply yourself in order to live the life you deserve and connect with the divine feminine power you were born with:

  1. Mental/emotional (which includes family and friends)
  2. Physical/health
  3. Financial/career
  4. Spiritual

By maintaining balance and personal application in these four areas, you can create the life you desire. If you are suffering or unhappy, where does the problem lie? Every woman I coach creates a plan for each of these quadrants. If they feel challenged in a certain area, they can apply specific actions to support positive change in that quadrant. You can’t control other people but you can control when and how you choose to apply yourself. So why not go for the GOLD!  Start to envision your life the way you want it. If you don’t expect it, how can it happen?

If you want to get on the fast track for creating the life you dream of, then personal coaching maybe the perfect option for you. To learn more, set up a Discovery Session) in the month of February and get 60 minutes for the price of 30.

Live Faithfully,


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Mal Duane is a Best Selling Author and Personal Life and Recovery Coach who has overcome life challenges using the steps in the Alpha Chick Process. Her personal mission is to help women excel in all areas of their lives from business to personal relationships. Mal has been featured with Fox 25 Boston Morning Show, CBS Radio, Aspire Magazine, Healthy Living and Metrowest Daily News. She has also been a featured guest on over one hundred Blogtalk Radio shows discussing recovery and personal transformation.

Mal’s book, Alpha Chick, Five Steps for Moving from Pain to Power, is a best selling book and is available on

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