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The Greatest Gifts You Can Give YOURSELF this Holiday Season!

The Holiday Season is in full swing!  That can be a really good thing or totally shitty depending on where you are.  Some of us are alone (single, divorced, widowed) during this time year but it doesn’t need to be a bad thing. I have spent the last three holiday seasons on my own and [Read More…]

I Was a Cougar THREE Times Last Week!

I am not saying I did anything that would land my ass in jail. But I did have so much fun- even if it was mostly in my own mind. I can’t deny it puts a smile on my face to see a younger man admiring me. Truthfully ladies-you know you love it too! My [Read More…]

It’s Never Too Late!

How many times have you said to yourself, I am too old to do that or I am too old to wear that?Based on what? It’s bullshit. Let your inner child rip. You know she is still inside of you. She is that little voice that can get very testy when she doesn’t get her [Read More…]

How to Shut Down the Inner Struggle

Do you wake up some days with two conversations going on in your head? You toss and turn, there is a tug of war going on about deciding what to do. One voice says, “stay where you are”, “don’t do anything”, “watch out”, “you can’t do this” which is the limiting voice of the ego [Read More…]

The Only Thing Sure is Change

Have you ever thought about all the things you can count on and realized there are none? It can be a scary idea. I was doing this the other day and the only thing I could come up with is that life is always changing. Sometimes it feels good and sometimes it doesn’t.  How do [Read More…]

Today is My Wedding Anniversary – and I’m Not Married.

This is still a day of emotional struggle for me. I am sitting quietly contemplating the events that unfolded in my marriage that brought me such deep pain. I recognize that my heart was broken wide open again, (it’s happened before- it’s part of life’s plan) but now I understand more about myself. My job [Read More…]

Denial – The Double Edged Sword

This week while tapping a show with the amazing Dr. Debra Reble, the topic of denial came up. I never realized what a strong reaction I had to the word. Denial had been the thread that stitched my life together for many years until I was ready to face my truth. Facing the truth can [Read More…]

Tap Into Your Awareness

It is probably not something you give much thought to but you should. Awareness is everything and without it nothing happens. Janet Rigsby who teaches the lessons of the Pathworks said this the other day in an online class. Until you can sit quietly and allow your awareness to just expand, you cannot have a [Read More…]

Truth Be Told

I need to come clean and tell you the truth about something. The past three months I have emailed you almost weekly about interviews I did on various tele-summits. Well enough is enough. It’s time for me to connect with you and stop hiding behind the free stuff. The truth is that all these projects [Read More…]

Gotta Love You Babe!

Happy Valentine’s Day! I appreciate you hanging in there with me the past few years while I tried to find my voice again. You see two years ago on February 14th, it was the icing on the cake of long term betrayal in my marriage. I won’t bore you with the heartbreaking details but that [Read More…]

You Are Never Too Old!

I have been deeply touched by the recent movement of women coming together to speak their truth about equal rights and ending sexual and physical abuse.  Sadly, the politics in our country have stirred massive fear and anger in the female population. I just wish we all had started being so proactive years ago rather than [Read More…]

Do Resolutions Really Work

Why do you set yourself up for failure by making resolutions every December 31st? The definition of the word resolution alone is a little bit of a tip off. It says a resolution is finding a solution to a problem or making a decision to do something. The two kick in the ass words here are problem [Read More…]

Are You a Truth Teller?

I have a few really powerful thought provoking  questions for you today. Have you thought about your story, your journey and realized that you have a powerful lesson inside of you that maybe you should share with the world? If you told your story could you help others? If you told your truth would it [Read More…]

It’s a big day! #GratitudeandGrace is here! Claim your free 60 GIFTS today.

Good morning Lovies, Today’s the day I’ve been dreaming about for months! I am celebrating the official birth of my book “Inspiration for a Woman’s Soul: Opening to Gratitude and Grace” featuring my transformational story, “Broken Open”  and just released by bestselling publishing house, Inspired Living Publishing! I’m honored to be a part of this [Read More…]

Exciting news! The soul-inspiring giveaway for WOMEN is open!

Woo Hoo! It’s backkkkkkk! I’m talking about Season 5 of the Inspired Living Giveaway: Resources for Mastering the Art of Living™. I’ve joined my good friend, Publisher Linda Joy of Aspire Magazine, the premier inspirational magazinefor women, for THE heart-centered, soul-inspired gift giveaway for women. The Inspired Living Giveway is dedicated to providing high-quality transformational resources [Read More…]


Good morning beautiful! Whatever you resist, persists. – Have you ever heard this saying? It means whatever you are trying to push away or deny, is gonna show up somehow. An example of this is with emotional eating. A friend of mine kept latching on to this phrase for some reason, always telling herself, I [Read More…]

Celebrate with me! My new book #ChoosingHappiness is here!

I am not letting the cold weather and mounds of snow keep me from doing what I need to do today. You see today’s the day I’ve been dreaming about for months! I am celebrating the official birth of my book “Inspiration for a Woman’s Soul: Choosing Happiness” featuring my transformational story, “What Happens When [Read More…]

Was that intentional?

Are you one of those people that wake up daily and allows circumstances to unfold and pull you all over the place? Well if the answer is yes, don’t feel too badly. Most people live their lives this way. They jump from one situation to the next without a plan or thoughtful response. I call [Read More…]

What are you missing?

Today I was out walking my dog early in the morning. It is a beautiful New England Fall day. There is a slight chill in the air and the colorful leaves were falling to the ground like big pieces of confetti. My dog, Hannah (she is really my soul sister) wanted to stop and the [Read More…]

How important is Mindset?

Mindset is “a habitual mental attitude that determines how you will interpret and respond to situations.” After reading that definition from Webster’s Dictionary, it stopped me in my tracks. I never thought of how important mindset is and it can direct your life. Mindset is not some diddly little attitude you walk around with. In [Read More…]

Graduating From a Life of Resistance to a Life of Acceptance

I realized yesterday that my life is really a series of graduations from different phases of self-expression. Simply put, the first half of my life was all about resistance to “what is” and living my life blinded by my own beliefs. Then I graduated to a life of acceptance: living with “what is” and understanding [Read More…]

Falling Into Grace: get out of your head and into your heart

The last few weeks I have been caught up in significant decisions. I kept finding myself thinking and rethinking what I should do. The more I thought, the further away I was from a conclusion. Does this sound familiar? My first big lesson came on Easter Sunday while I was listening to Adyashanti with Oprah [Read More…]

Freedom From Telling Your Story

How to set yourself free from the past: Tell Your Story! When you are able to tell your story, you free yourself from the bondage of the past. Revealing is healing. It is a process of cleansing the soul of any old and unnecessary debris from the past. Sadly, most of you do just the [Read More…]

Creative Imagination + Strong Faith = Deliberate Creation

Why do we get so beaten down and hopeless that we can’t create what we want in our lives? I am here to tell you, maybe even while standing on a roof top shouting that we most certainly can. Like everything else in life, there is a formula. Once you have that the rest is easy. You [Read More…]

The Life Recovery Formula: Will Power + Initiative = Accomplishment

The moment you were created you were filled with your own personal will power. As a young child you asserted yourself frequently with such expressions as No! and Mine! You fully grasped the feeling of using your will power. At three years old you could probably express your boundaries better than you do today! Slowly [Read More…]